He is 24 years old. His wife is 20. His first child is just
past the age of 2. He lives in a 3 story
house. The first floor is where the cow lives, the second floor is a bedroom
where the big brother lives, the third floor landing is the kitchen, and the
third floor bedroom sleeps 3. The bedroom is stuffed with a bed, piled up bins
which I am guessing hold household treasures, a couch, a small television and
probably 200 flies.
This is the family whose latrine I was helping to build. Not
that I can say I helped a whole lot, every time I tried to do something someone
would jump up and do it. So between
trying to be helpful, taking pictures, asking questions and documenting the
process I got to know the family and a few special members of the community. Families here are large and close. I got to meet many of them during that day.
Mom, who had a particular liking to my nose and then tried to pressure me into
indulging in some afternoon local spirits… Grandpa, an ancient and quiet man
just checking in to make sure everything was being done right. The 26 year old brother, who is part of the
army, has a wife and two kids (this was particularly interesting as I reflected
on the differences between us at the exact same age). Best of all though I got to meet all the
local children.
Sometimes with the work that I do I get wrapped up in the
technical parts, the institutions I am working with and the educated people
that I am collaborating with. On this day however, I got to step down, step
back and play with the people we are really doing this work for – the next
generation. When talking to people in workshops, presentations, airplanes or
restaurants about what I do, I talk about children and the effects of poor
water and sanitation on their health.
Here are a few of the
facts:
- Unsafe water affects children’s ability to absorb nutrients which does not allow them to develop into healthy adults.
- Every single day 4500 children die because they don’t have access to safe water.
I sometimes say these things without conscious connection to
those children and you probably hear them without conscious connection. So lets connect.
Meet some of the beautiful children of Nepal. They want to
practice their English and hear stories about where you live, they want to see
pictures of themselves, they want to do exactly what dad does, they want to
squish mud through their toes and then put it into buckets for no apparent
reason, they want to dig holes and move dirt into piles, they want to pick flowers, they want to ride
bikes and they want to chase cats. They
were exactly as you were as a child, they are exactly as your children are and like
every child in the world they should have a bright and healthy future.
Namaste
Taryn